“By the time David had finished reporting to Saul, Jonathan was deeply impressed with David – an immediate bond was forged between them. He became totally committed to David. From that point on he would be David’s number-one advocate and friend.” 1 Samuel 18:1 MSG
“Stage four cancer… in the lymph nodes, chest, abdomen, and groin.” The words hit me like a two-by-four across the rib cage. Breathing was suddenly a struggle. If my husband had not been there to hold me, I would not have been able to stand. But the doctor’s report came not for me or my husband; it was for my friend. My first thoughts, I’m ashamed to say, were selfish.
“I can’t do this without her.”
Frustrating, exhausting, yet unbelievably rewarding, she and I run this crazy marathon called ministry together. We laugh. We cry. We laugh some more. She offers me a helping hand as we scale mountains, and I give her a gentle nudge as we trudge through valleys.
“I can’t do this without her.”
Then, as quickly as the thought came, it now makes an abrupt turn from me to her….and her family. Her son is the same age as my G-man. He will need us for much more than the usual sleep-overs and carpools. This is it - the moment where a decision must be made. Will I be a “write a birthday message on your Facebook timeline” friend, or a “no deed is to great” friend?
“Friends come and friends go, but a true friend sticks by you like family.” Proverbs 18:24 MSG
God’s desire for us regarding friendship is clear. A true friend is equivalent to a family member, and we are all bound together as one family when we are born again as sons and daughters of the Creator of the universe. In the New Testament, Jesus emphasizes this point when he says to his disciples, “Here are my mother and brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” Matthew 12:50
As we live our lives striving to become the solid, unwavering friends Christ wants us to be, will we be willing when we reach that life-changing, path-altering moment that comes without warning? My decision has been made. I am willing.
Whatever help she needs, I will remember…
“But it was good that you helped me when I needed help.” Phil. 4:14
Wherever we must venture together, I will be sure of this promise…
“And surely I am with you always…” Matt. 28:20
Whenever I need to be there to support, I will bravely comply…
“And when he (Elisha) had called her, she stood before him.” 2 Kings 4:12
Whatever, wherever, whenever. No deed is too great. I am willing, for she is my friend.
Think about the friendships God has forged in your life today. Is your desire to be a covenant friend? Have you drifted into a shallower sea of instant messages, ignored texts, or put-off promises? Join me for the remainder of this series on friendship, as I walk through lessons learned from our Greatest Advocate and Friend.
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