It started innocently enough, right after Thanksgiving. Digging out Christmas decorations, deciding on the Christmas Day dinner menu, and more, adding to my growing to-do list.
But as I studied the calendar and thought about the days ahead, things just weren’t adding up to the perfect Christmas celebration I envisioned.
Maintaining Joy in a Busy Season
The days flew by, and I still had no idea how many people would be coming over. I couldn’t settle on a menu that seemed right for the different dietary needs of our guests.
Would everyone show up at the same time? Or would everyone come-and-go according to their own schedules? Do I need to plan activities?
With each passing day, anxiety grew.
Soon I began spiraling into a dangerous place of creating too many expectations—a place I’d been before. I felt my physical body begin to weaken. In all the planning, I’d forgotten to take care of myself like I should. I feared I wouldn’t even be able to enjoy the blessings of the day.
Was there any way to salvage the season?
“Nehemiah said, ‘Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.’” Nehemiah 8:10 NIV