Last Christmas many of us had more quiet time than we wanted. Illness, staying indoors, and postponed family gatherings all contributed to spending extended time without the company of others.
For some, the solitude came as a welcome reset. A reminder to slow down and remember what’s important in life. For others, it was too much of a good thing.
We struggled through the holidays of 2020, putting a smile on our faces and making the most out of a difficult year. Then we entered 2021 with fresh hope for the year ahead, only to face great loss and even more discouragement.
So as we reflect through this Christmas season, I can’t help but feel conflicted. On one hand, I want to keep things as simple as possible, and commit to spend plenty of alone time with God. On the other hand, I’m ready to celebrate with new enthusiasm, putting the difficulties we all experienced behind us.
Whether the pandemic has given you a renewed perspective on your priorities or left you feeling discouraged and disconnected, you may also be ready this Christmas to get beyond so much pain. But in our readiness to move forward, let’s not fill up our calendars too hastily.
More than ever, we need to create quiet time this Christmas.
Why You Need Your Quiet Time This Christmas
Right now you may be thinking, “The last thing I need is to be alone. When I’m by myself, I end up thinking about all the loved ones I’ve lost recently. Grief takes over. I need to stay busy right now.”
It’s true that time alone can open us up to deep sadness over memories of what we’ve lost. And yes, staying busy can help ward off overwhelming sadness. But even in our deepest hurt, God wants to meet with us, and quiet time is the best way for us to sense His comforting presence. Peace, strength, love, and direction can all be found when we spend quiet time with our Heavenly Father.
The beauty of God’s presence is why we need more quiet time this Christmas.
“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Psalm 16:11 ESV
Creating More Quiet Time
It’s a challenge to find quiet time in the last month of the year. Between end-of-year doctor’s visits and unexpected issues, each morning I stare at my calendar and try to juggle things to make the most of my time. I’ve prayed and asked God to show me new ways to create more quiet time, or make the best of the time I have already.
One way to create quiet time is to choose simple rituals at home over extravagant plans.
I’ve discovered a valuable truth recently. Quiet time doesn’t necessarily mean just me and God. Quiet time can include my people, too. Coffee and conversation with my husband. Cooking pancakes for the grandkids while they sleep in. Playing with my granddog in the yard. Learning to appreciate these simple joys means so much more than trying to plan the perfect holiday! And I can say with all the sincerity in my heart, God’s presence can be felt in mighty ways when we devote these simple moments to Him.
Instead of getting frustrated over canceled plans, embrace the unexpected downtime.
Frustration is an evil foe. When my best-laid plans get canceled or postponed, I’m guilty of letting frustration take over. Soon I’m wallowing and complaining over what’s missing instead of rejoicing in the blessings of today. So when plans get canceled, (which they will from time to time,) I am choosing to see the possibilities of the quiet time left in their place. God knows when we need to celebrate, and when we need to rest in Him. We can trust that His plans— canceled or otherwise— are better than our own.
Staying Tuned in During the Time We Have
Checking off a few items on your to-do list, like wrapping presents or baking? Light your favorite candle and let the fragrance envelop the room. Doing your daily devotional reading? Step outside and feel the contrast between the crisp air and warmth of the sun. Take the kids or grandkids on a walk and ask them to name all the different sights and sounds as they explore nature. There’s something about tuning our senses into the beauty around us that lifts our spirits and brings us into deeper connection with our Creator.
Look for ways to engage your senses during your downtime and see how it draws you closer to God.
Whatever ways you decide to enhance your quiet time this season, I pray your relationship with our Lord will strengthen and grow. May you experience His presence like never before at Christmas, and as we turn the page to next year.
Have a peaceful, hopeful, and blessed Christmas season, my friend.
