Help for When It's Hard to Get Motivated

“But I am like a green olive tree in the house of God. I trust in the steadfast love of God forever and ever” (Psalm 52:8 ESV).


Ever been in a season when you just can’t seem to get motivated?

Maybe that extra few minutes of sleep is calling your name, or one more Netflix episode is too tempting. Or maybe the idea of being super productive has lost its appeal, since it’s easier to stay in PJ’s and put off those goals for one more day, especially when we don’t know what unexpected circumstances today will bring.


The past months have given us plenty of reasons to be unmotivated.


I don’t know about you, but I’ve felt like those plants in my backyard right now, the ones with the crunchy brown leaves covering the ground below them. A plant going through its dormant season means no green no leaves, no blooms. And honestly, who can be motivated with all that?


Hope from the Bible When We Can’t Find Motivation

“But I am like a green olive tree in the house of God. I trust in the steadfast love of God forever and ever” (Psalm 52:8 ESV).

In Psalm 52, David seems a little more than frustrated with a traitor who loved “lying more than speaking what is right.” (Psalm 52:3) But what captured my attention most about this psalm is how David described himself, as someone who trusted the Lord, no matter what. In spite of every hardship David endured under the hand of Saul, he chose to compare himself to an olive tree. And by looking at what that comparison means, we can find the motivation to keep going, even through dormant seasons.


Finding It Hard to Get Motivated?

The olive tree may seem like a strange choice for David in that situation, but what he needed was the hope to persevere when things were at their worst, or when life brought more bad news his way. Maybe we’ve all been feeling a little unmotivated lately, so let’s take a look at 3 characteristics of the olive plant that can give us hope to find our motivation once again.

1.      The olive tree is resilient. The oldest olive trees in history lived to be between 3000 and 4000 years old. Even more remarkable, at this age they still bear a crop of fruit every year. These trees are a symbol of longevity and perseverance.

2.      The olive tree is valuable. Every part of the tree is useful and desired. The fruit is used for food, the oil for cooking and light. The leaves are used for medicine, and even the wood is valued by wood-workers.

3.      The olive tree is determined. When the olive tree is chopped close to the ground, it easily sprouts back.

Through every trial in his life, David relied on God to be his source, so he could continue moving forward. God’s mercy is constant and unchanging. When we count on his strength to endure, we too can find the motivation to keep going, and bloom when the time is right:)

So when I feel like that dormant plant, I can remember today’s verse and trust God for the fruit. It doesn’t come from me, anyway. It comes from Him. And the truth is, sometimes we enjoy a fruitful season, while other times we wait. David knew this, which is evident in the very next verse:

“I will wait for your name, for it is good, in the presence of the godly” (Psalm 52:9).

Are you in a dormant season right now? Feeling a lack of motivation, or are you waiting for God’s say-so before you take that faith step? May God bless you in the waiting as you trust Him to prepare you for abundant fruit. Maybe this is a dormant season for you, and that’s okay. God is always preparing, so while we seek Him let’s also remember the olive tree and claim it over our lives.

You are valuable, determined, and resilient.

 

How to Make the Most of Your Quiet Time This Christmas

Last Christmas many of us had more quiet time than we wanted. Illness, staying indoors, and postponed family gatherings all contributed to spending extended time without the company of others.

For some, the solitude came as a welcome reset. A reminder to slow down and remember what’s important in life. For others, it was too much of a good thing.

We struggled through the holidays of 2020, putting a smile on our faces and making the most out of a difficult year. Then we entered 2021 with fresh hope for the year ahead, only to face great loss and even more discouragement.

So as we reflect through this Christmas season, I can’t help but feel conflicted. On one hand, I want to keep things as simple as possible, and commit to spend plenty of alone time with God. On the other hand, I’m ready to celebrate with new enthusiasm, putting the difficulties we all experienced behind us. 

Whether the pandemic has given you a renewed perspective on your priorities or left you feeling discouraged and disconnected, you may also be ready this Christmas to get beyond so much pain. But in our readiness to move forward, let’s not fill up our calendars too hastily.

More than ever, we need to create quiet time this Christmas.

Why You Need Your Quiet Time This Christmas

Right now you may be thinking, “The last thing I need is to be alone. When I’m by myself, I end up thinking about all the loved ones I’ve lost recently. Grief takes over. I need to stay busy right now.”

It’s true that time alone can open us up to deep sadness over memories of what we’ve lost. And yes, staying busy can help ward off overwhelming sadness. But even in our deepest hurt, God wants to meet with us, and quiet time is the best way for us to sense His comforting presence. Peace, strength, love, and direction can all be found when we spend quiet time with our Heavenly Father.

The beauty of God’s presence is why we need more quiet time this Christmas.

“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Psalm 16:11 ESV

Creating More Quiet Time

It’s a challenge to find quiet time in the last month of the year. Between end-of-year doctor’s visits and unexpected issues, each morning I stare at my calendar and try to juggle things to make the most of my time. I’ve prayed and asked God to show me new ways to create more quiet time, or make the best of the time I have already.

One way to create quiet time is to choose simple rituals at home over extravagant plans.

I’ve discovered a valuable truth recently. Quiet time doesn’t necessarily mean just me and God. Quiet time can include my people, too. Coffee and conversation with my husband. Cooking pancakes for the grandkids while they sleep in. Playing with my granddog in the yard. Learning to appreciate these simple joys means so much more than trying to plan the perfect holiday! And I can say with all the sincerity in my heart, God’s presence can be felt in mighty ways when we devote these simple moments to Him.

Instead of getting frustrated over canceled plans, embrace the unexpected downtime.


Frustration is an evil foe. When my best-laid plans get canceled or postponed, I’m guilty of letting frustration take over. Soon I’m wallowing and complaining over what’s missing instead of rejoicing in the blessings of today. So when plans get canceled, (which they will from time to time,) I am choosing to see the possibilities of the quiet time left in their place. God knows when we need to celebrate, and when we need to rest in Him. We can trust that His plans— canceled or otherwise— are better than our own.

Staying Tuned in During the Time We Have

Checking off a few items on your to-do list, like wrapping presents or baking? Light your favorite candle and let the fragrance envelop the room. Doing your daily devotional reading? Step outside and feel the contrast between the crisp air and warmth of the sun. Take the kids or grandkids on a walk and ask them to name all the different sights and sounds as they explore nature. There’s something about tuning our senses into the beauty around us that lifts our spirits and brings us into deeper connection with our Creator. 

Look for ways to engage your senses during your downtime and see how it draws you closer to God.

Whatever ways you decide to enhance your quiet time this season, I pray your relationship with our Lord will strengthen and grow. May you experience His presence like never before at Christmas, and as we turn the page to next year. 

Have a peaceful, hopeful, and blessed Christmas season, my friend.