This post has been updated from its original version.
The most joyful season of the year. It’s here, and with it comes the possibility of rushed schedules, tired bodies, and frustrated hearts.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
With intention, focus, and a little time invested, we can change a hectic holiday season to a time when our spirits are refreshed and renewed.
Last week, we looked at the first two things we must do in order to find grace and peace in our holiday schedules. If you didn’t get a chance to read it, go there first by clicking the title link.
Today we will explore two more musts to help us have the best holidays possible.
If I need to say no, I'll do so in love, and I won’t fret over hurt feelings.
One year I came down with bronchitis right before Thanksgiving. As a result, we weren’t able to take our trip to Alabama to visit family. I felt awful. Not just about the bronchitis, but about having to miss seeing my mother-in-law on Thanksgiving Day.
I’ll never forget what she said to me though. It’s an ideal she lived by, and taught to us as well.
It doesn’t matter what day we get together, as long as we get to see each other. It’s not about the day, but being together when we can.
We didn’t have to visit on that exact day. We could have Thanksgiving any day of the year! I always remember her words when the demands of holiday travel just gets to be too much.
We may need to make plans in January for a weekend visit, or even February. The most important thing is to let go of the guilt over hurting someone’s feelings.
We can’t do it all, and feeling responsible for everyone else’s feelings won’t help.
I’ll take a moment to reflect on my schedule each day, reminding myself of my priorities.
Now that we’ve done the work of setting things in order, the rest of our schedule can be filled with fun activities that will bring joy to the season.
But before adding anything to the calendar, let’s take a close look at it each day. Let’s read through those things we identified as most important, and resist the temptation to erase and replace.
Did your Sunday school plan an impromptu gift exchange this Saturday night? Did your son’s teacher lose her volunteers for the class party?
If we already have things on the calendar, we should prayerfully consider options before making any changes. Will these new activities add extra stress for me or my family? If so, proceed with caution.
Taking time to review the schedule will help us make the best possible decisions for the day ahead.
Above all, let’s agree together to remember why we are celebrating. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the New Year bring an abundance of opportunities to reflect on God's gift to us.
Let’s focus on Him through the holidays, and enjoy growing closer to our Lord as we find grace and peace in our plans.
