Standing Near the Light

All I could see through the screen of our newly purchased tent was pure darkness. My young son and I huddled together, searching for sleep after a long day of outdoor activities. Our night under the stars would finish off this mother/son adventure, but the sweltering Texas heat was just too much.

I needed to escape from our two-person unit that was really only big enough for one. I just had a little problem. It was dark out there.

At only 7-years-old, the exhilarating events of the day wore him out. Hiking, horseback riding, and making crafts all took their toll. Now, my camper slept soundly to the noises of nature. I needed a short reprieve in the middle of the night, and thankfully I spotted another boy-mom making her way out of her tent.

My camping skills were lackluster at best, but you’d think I’d at least know to keep a lantern on hand for such an occasion. Unfortunately, I didn’t. So I hustled over close to my fellow scouting mom and stood near her lantern. In the darkness of the woods, I knew the importance of standing near the light.

“This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.” John 1:5 NLT

As a young child, I remember pitching a tent in my own backyard with neighborhood friends. I recall holding our flashlights up toward the roof, making shadow animals with our hands. Those long summer nights held such sweet memories of laughter and friendship. We didn’t worry about a thing.

These are the same memories I hoped to pass along to my kids. But things aren’t the same as they were back then.

The older I get, the more I become painfully aware of the turmoil of this world. I sense the shadows of darkness and feel overwhelmed by one disturbing news story after another.

Will it ever end? My mind agonizes. I can’t even fathom why some things happen. But through the darkness and despair I see all around us, God’s Word gives me the answer for the reprieve I need.

When we stay close to the light, we find hope – even in the darkness.

In John chapter 1, the apostle declares a powerful truth which was revealed to us through Jesus Christ, the sinless Son of God. God is light. The light of our Lord represents all that is good and perfect. No darkness can be in Him or near Him, because of His illuminate glory.

And to keep ourselves from being devastated by the darkness, we must always stay close to the only Source of light.

Though my camping days have come and gone, ten years later my son still enjoys overnight camping fun. And you’ll be pleased to know that I always make sure he has his lantern packed. Because without a doubt, the one lesson I pray he learns from me is the importance of knowing where to find light in the darkness.

As he continues to grow and become an adult, I know he will have the same questions I’ve had. We all have them at some point in our lives. How can all these horrible things be happening? Why is there so much darkness in the world?

But he’ll know the answer to those hard questions can be found in God’s Word, the radiant flame that leads us each and every day.

May we all find comfort in God as we press through the dark and draw near to Him. And may the warmth of His light give us hope.

Kristine

How to Handle Change Like a Champ

I dislike change. Plain and simple.

Some people are better at handling change than others. My husband, for example, thrives through change. He approaches new situations with a positive attitude and looks at every opportunity as a welcome challenge.

I curl into a ball and hide under the covers.

Change drives me into list-making mode. I weigh out the pros and cons of important decisions, trying to make the best choice for everyone involved. I agonize over it. I lose sleep because of it. Yes, I take the situation to God in prayer. But I don’t often trust Him with the results.

Fortunately, God’s Word gives us great guidance when we face change in our lives. So whether I’m a person who runs head-on into change or tucks my tail and runs the other way, I can learn from Scripture how to handle change like a champ. Here are three things to remember when we face change.

 

1.      STAY POSITIVE.

“So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you” (Deuteronomy 31:6 NLT).

When entering a new situation, it’s so easy to look back at how good things were before. I’ve been guilty of this in the past when job transfers took our family to new places. Dwelling on the things we left behind clouded my view of what wonderful things waited for us in our new home. Once I learned to keep my eyes forward, my attitude toward the changes shifted from negative to positive.

2.      STAY FIRM.

“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, where our forerunner, Jesus, has entered on our behalf” (Hebrews 6:19-20a NIV). 

For me, the hardest part about change is the follow-through. Once I make the decision to forge ahead, I need to trust God with whatever happens. So often we second-guess our decision when things don’t work out as we thought they would. We wonder if this change was ever God’s will. But staying firm through the change will bring stability – which our families will definitely need during those uncertain times.

3.      STAY FOCUSED.

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows” (James 1:17 NIV).

Even though change in life will come, God never changes. He is the same “yesterday, today, and forever.” He is the One who remains constant through this unpredictable life. So as we learn to handle the changes that will come, let’s remember to hold onto our unchanging God.

Even though I may not like change, I can face it with steadfast courage today. And who knows?  I just might choose to crawl out from under those covers once and for all. Let’s make a choice right now to remember the promises above when it’s time to change.